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Post by guapa15 on Jun 13, 2005 19:12:35 GMT -5
Why are guys so complicated? My boyfriend tells me he loves me and i know i love him, but sometimes he doesn't believe me when i tell him things he heard aren't true. He says he believes his homies because they've been there for him. But i told him i'm his gurl and he should believe me. What should i do?
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Post by LyrikalDreamer on Jun 19, 2005 3:11:01 GMT -5
well whats the deal girl? What are his friends telling him? And make sure you check your self that you are giving them a reason to not like you or to think you are doing something you shouldn't be. Guys will always live by the rule "Bros before hoes" and females will always live by the rule "Sistas before mistas" thats just how it is. How long have you two been together?
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Post by lawera559 on Jun 21, 2005 18:10:45 GMT -5
u gurl dont even trip. my man tells me he loves me to but also says that he will always have filling for his x that was goin to have his baby but lost it. so donteven trip keep ur head up gurl!
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Post by corinavillegas on Sept 8, 2005 9:09:35 GMT -5
girl you just gotta chill. if you aint creepin like they say u r, u aint got nothing to worry about!! guys are jerks they call you when they want and have to play hard to get. just to a certain point!
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Post by JenniferJQ on Sept 14, 2005 21:41:23 GMT -5
Hey wud-up girl. Well hey let me tell you this, dont trip, cuz if he does really love you like he sayz, he should beleive in you. Just cuz he hears it from his homiez, dont mean nothing. If you know that you didnt do anything wrong, than girl you aint got nothing to worry about, just believe in yourself. Alright. So dont worry at all. Good Luck Homie.
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Post by LA CAPRICHOSA on Nov 1, 2005 18:24:34 GMT -5
WELL I DONT KNOW WHATS WRONG WITH JUNIOR MY EX NOW. WE BROKE UP LAST MONTH AND THE RESAON WAS CUZ HE SAID THAT I DID NIOT LOOK 4 HIM OR CALLED HIM THIS WAS THE THIRD TIME HE HAS LEFT ME. I REALLY LOVE HIM TO DEATH. THE NIGHT HE LEFT ME I FELT REALLY BAD AND I DID NOT KNOW WHAT TO DO I STILL LOVE HIM BUT IM SCARED THAT IF THIS TIME HE TRIES TO GET BACK AT ME I DONT KNOW WHAT 2 ANSWER CUZ IN SCARED OF LOSING HIM AGAIN WHAT SHOULD I DO?
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Post by righty D on Nov 3, 2005 19:16:38 GMT -5
hey gurl kkeep yo head ^ if what ur man boyz are tellin him aint tru fuck em off jus stand by yo man
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Post by gigglez on Nov 8, 2005 11:12:54 GMT -5
well ive been with my boyfriend for 1 yr and 4 months wee always figting for stupid stuff his in love with me and im only 15 yrs old and his 19 i dont know what to do his friends always telling them bad stuffs about me and i dont like that they tell him im a slut and shit like that in just he sometimes belives them and that gets me mad yesterday i told him that dont you think that if we see each other for a long time willget board he got all sad and he told me dont call me whats that wrong what should i do?
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Post by arly on Nov 8, 2005 11:15:39 GMT -5
hey well me and my man have a long distance relationship and a girl over there likes him and he tells me he dosent pay attention to her what should i do belive him?
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Post by jessicagarciasalgadoyahoocom on Nov 25, 2005 15:17:19 GMT -5
all of you are stupid you should let them go don't cry over a man if he doesn't trust you don't stay with him maybe i don't know wat luv is i never had are boyfriend
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Post by jessicagarciasalgadoyahoocom on Nov 25, 2005 15:19:25 GMT -5
nobody like me i dont know what love is idon't have a boyfriend wat should i do
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Post by LyrikalDreamer on Nov 30, 2005 15:51:00 GMT -5
Guapa, just let him go, if he listens to his friends then he isnt serious. Its better in the long run. Let him see what he is missing.
La Caprichosa, let Junior go and move on. Trust me on this. He has you under his thumb and can get you back when ever he wants. You need to get away from that. Yes you love him, or you think you do. Find someone better who doesn't get upset if you dont call him RIGHT when you get home from school. Trust me, you are better off with out Junior. You don't love him, you are just used to having him there. Don't go back to him, just find someone new, or stay single for a little bit.
Gigglez, first off, you are too young to be dating a 19 year old. His friends call you names because the feel the same way. You two have very different mind sets. Yes its great to feel cool because you scored a 19 year old guy and you are merely a freshman, but you have shown how serious about the relationship you are when you said "yesterday i told him that dont you think that if we see each other for a long time will get bored". That shows you are already getting bored. Date someone your own age and have fun, don't be too serious, you're still a kid. He got sad because he realized you are young, and your mentality is not mature yet. Go out date, go to highschool basketball games, football games, and stuff with a guy your age, its much better.
Arly, dont stress it unless he gives you reason to stress it. Long distance relationships are always hard, but depending on how young you are and if you met him online and have never spent any time in person with him, then well you need to reconsider things.
WORDS TO THE WISE: IF YOU DATE SOMEONE YOU MET ONLINE AND HE/SHE LIVES ABOUT 3 HOURS AWAY OR MORE AND YOU HAVE NEVER MET AND ARE TOO YOUNG TO LIVE ON YOUR OWN (AGES 17 AND UNDER) AND ARE STILL IN HIGHSCHOOL, AND JUST SWAP MUSHY MESSAGES ONLINE, ITS NOT REAL, GET SOMETHING REAL IN YOUR HOMETOWN.
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Post by THeRidaFan on Dec 2, 2005 3:42:39 GMT -5
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Post by Mariposa on Dec 9, 2005 15:26:01 GMT -5
Let the truth speak for itself. Let your YES be YES and let your No be NO. Let your soul have peace if you are speaking the truth to him. Tell him this is my word, and my conscience is clear and at peace because I am telling you the truth. I fyou speak the truth you should have peace. How old is he anyway? if he is young then that is how they all think at that age. they out grow it. because sooner or later their homies will let them down and the one that will be there for them is their honey and they eventually figure this out. it just takes them a while to realized this. Tell him the thuth and then beleive and tell him. that lies come from evil but tell him that you beleive in this quote. "LOVE IS STRONGER THAN THE EVIL ONE IS" so speak the thruth and then allow yourself to have peace because the truth always finds its way.
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Post by lilshygirl 13 on Dec 24, 2005 0:09:18 GMT -5
ya my boyfriend tells me he wants to have sex w/ me i did but now i regret it cuz he left me
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